learn to love you!

 hey guys, so right now, im currently sitting in bed with a big cosy jumper on, makeup all down my face, coconut oil in my hair, (it actually looks like i havent showered in a year) also im pretty sure i have sause on my face from dinner. i feel pretty rubbish, it hasnt been the most amazing day ever, and i deffently think in these times you have to learn to love yourself. 

the first step in learning to love you is, stop comparing yourself to everyone around you. people are different for a reason! its healthy to compare but don't let it take over. you may think, uh who would want my body, my nose is too big and i don't have a thigh gap. i have big hips and my boobs aren't big enough. we only see the imperfections because we are so obsessed about looking perfect. i get so caught up on my imperfections i forget, i have a hour-glass figure, probably the most desired figure by us girls. i have big, full lips with a strong, pernounced cupids bow. i have a big butt, suddenly everyone wants bigger bums. i like all these things about me, but i never tell myself that. 

starting from now, every time i think badly of myself, I'm going to write down of a sticky note one good thing about me and put in on my mirror to look at everyday as a reminder. 

build up your confidence, stop worrying about pressure from the media. Don't be a sheep and follow the herd. be yourself and let your beauty shine. dress how you want to dress, act how you want to act, most importantly, eat what you want to eat! size has nothing to do with beauty. if your young, your probably surrounded by a ton of immature girls and boys that like to pick on your weight. being skin and bones will not make you any happier, any more popular, as long as your healthy, f*** them! don't let people design you, be your own artist. 

feeling down, ugly, worthless, fat?, this is all just a state of mind. do what makes you happy and i swear you will feel so happy and positive. 

just like a storm it will pass and reveal a hidden sunshine. 

focus on what you know makes you happy, learn to change your state of mind. what people say doesn't matter, don't let them bring you down.

this was such a ramble, i get quite "into" these kinds of topics, everything ends up all over the place!

kisses xoxo

(picture taken from google images)

amazing smells.

 

favourite perfumes 

so i realised i have quite the selection of perfumes in my room, honestly its a pretty unhealthy amount.

I'm not the type of gal that has a 'signature' scent, i wear something different everyday. 

I've narrowed my selection down to my five all time favourites that i want to share with you. 

5. NYC by Sarah Jessica Parker 

 

this scent is best described as fun, flirty and bubbly.  its a classic fruity scent that's perfect for young girls or a mature woman. its defiantly a very fresh, summery scent that everyone will love.

with top notes of- strawberry, Italian mandarin and osmanthus.

middle notes of- rose, honeysuckle, mimose and gardenia .

base notes of- rum, sandalwood, vanilla and musk.

price ranging from £25-£42

click here for more details. 

4. Nina by Nina Rici 

i got the Nina perfume for my birthday this year and i absolutely love it! it smells very romantic and sexy. the blend of florals and fruits is perfection, it smells just like a fresh toffee apple. this perfume would suit a lady of any age, old or young. 

with top notes of-  Calabrese lemon and lime caipirinha.

middle notes of- moon flower, red toffee apple, vanilla and peony petals. 

base notes of- white cider, apple tree wood and cotton musk.

price ranging from £24-£45 

click  here for more details 

3. very irresistible by Givenchy

 

this is probably the most universal perfume ever. like ever. its perfect for any occasion, any time of day, any time of year, any age, its perfection in a bottle. 

its timeless, any woman wearing it will defiantly become irresistible to anyone and everyone. 

with top notes of- star anise and verbena leaf 

middle notes of-  Centifolia Rose and  Peony Rose

base notes of-  Passion Rose, Fantasia Rose and Emotion Rose

price ranging from £35-£61 

click  here for more details

2. Paris by YSL

 

if you love the smell of parmaviolets, buy this now. it smells exactly like them, its gorgeous! 

its very elegant and sophisticated so  have to say it suits a older lady more than a teen but honestly i would wear it regardless its so beautiful. 

with top notes of- Cassia, Hawthorn, Hyacinth, Bergamot, Geranium and Orange Blossom

middle notes of-  Rose, Lime Blossom, Ylang Ylang, Violet, Lily and Orris, Jasmine

and base notes of-  Oakmoss, Heliotrope, Cedar, Iris, Sandalwood, Amber and Musk

price ranging from £33-£53

click here for more details

1. KenzoAmour by Kenzo

 

i beg everyone reading this to have a smell of this, it is the most long lasting, perfect, timeless scent ever. its a beautiful, sensual, sexual, mysterious bottle of perfection. 

with top notes of-  Frangipani Blossom and Heliotrope

middle notes of- Chinese white tea and Japanese cherry blossom

base notes of-  Chinese vanilla, tanaka wood and musk

price ranging from £40+

click here for more details

so that was my top five perfume picks, hopefully you'll go have a sniff of one of them, i swear there all worth it! 

kisses xoxo

 

update: where i've been, whats coming up and rambling!

Hiya everyone, I've been a ghost on here for quite a while now, its been bugging me that i haven't really been on here since summer and now its like 8 weeks until Christmas?! where the heck did the time go?.
it's literally been a case of, I'll post tomorrow, I'll start fresh on Monday etc... 
Buttt I'm happy to say I'm back and hopefully i will be post weekly on here until i get a routine worked out! also happy late Halloween!

whats happening with my fitness posts? 

for now, I'm putting them on a hold, I've been battling a really nasty flare up of whatever wrong with me, if anyone wants me to talk in detail then send me a message and i shall do so, but for quickness, i have been stuck in bed basically since i was last on here. working out just Inst a option for me right now and that really really sucks. also shout out to demi Taylor, who left a lovely comment on my last fitness post, you really cheered me up so thank you!

what i have planned

Ive got a few ideas on some posts that will be up shortly and I'm super excited  about them. so stay tuned for them!

giveaway? 

I'm planning on holding a Christmas giveaway and I'm super excited for it. I'm not sure about the details yet but it should be so much fun!

i have really missed this and I'm glad to be back!

kisses xoxo